{"id":757,"date":"2024-04-17T06:11:16","date_gmt":"2024-04-17T06:11:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/?page_id=757"},"modified":"2026-09-05T17:32:15","modified_gmt":"2026-09-05T17:32:15","slug":"mis-ei-toetanud","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/mis-ei-toetanud\/","title":{"rendered":"What didn&#039;t support?"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>\n.wp-block-group.has-background-background-color.has-background{background:#faf6ef!important}\n.ss-voice-eyebrow{text-transform:uppercase;letter-spacing:.08em;font-size:13px;font-weight:700;color:#F5A623;margin:0 0 8px}\n.wp-block-group.has-background-background-color.has-background .wp-block-column:first-child>p{background:#fff;border-left:4px solid #F5A623;border-radius:0 12px 12px 0;padding:16px 20px;margin:0 0 14px;box-shadow:0 2px 8px rgba(0,0,0,0.06);font-size:16px;line-height:1.6;color:#3d3a30}\n.wp-block-group.has-background-background-color.has-background .wp-block-column:first-child>p:empty{display:none;padding:0;margin:0;border:0;box-shadow:none}\n.wp-block-group.has-background-background-color.has-background .wp-block-column:last-child img{border-radius:16px;box-shadow:0 4px 16px rgba(0,0,0,0.1)}\n.ss-voice-back{display:inline-block;background:#F5A623;color:#fff!important;font-size:14px;font-weight:700;padding:10px 22px;border-radius:8px;text-decoration:none}\n@media (max-width:781px){.wp-block-group.has-background-background-color.has-background .wp-block-columns{flex-direction:column}}\n<\/style>\n<p class=\"ss-voice-eyebrow\" style=\"text-align:center;margin-bottom:32px\">YOUTH VOICE<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull has-background-background-color has-background\" style=\"margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-right:var(--wp--preset--spacing--30);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-left:var(--wp--preset--spacing--30)\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-ceb3b540 wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns alignwide are-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-f50a6616 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:60%\">\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMy parents were at work all the time, so I was alone a lot of the time.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c&quot;My family nagged me too much. I would have liked an energetic approach, not a morbid state: energy reflects energy.&quot;. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Phrases like: \u201cI am an energy vampire\u201d; \u201cAct normally\u201d; \u201cI talk too much\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNobody listens, we are not equal, adults don\u2019t listen to us.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo one took my concerns seriously.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c&quot;I told the school psychologist about my concerns, but the conversation turned to school.&quot;\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI didn&#039;t trust adults because they didn&#039;t keep their promises.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cEveryone asks why you did it: that&#039;s already an assessment.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMy mother is too much of a worrier, and that&#039;s why I don&#039;t really talk to her about my worries.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c&quot;I had contact with various staff at school, but I don&#039;t feel that they were very helpful. Rather, they were intimidating and I was afraid that I might be sent to a special school.&quot;\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo one really engaged with me or focused on helping me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI don&#039;t want to meet with too many specialists because I don&#039;t have time to talk about my problems all the time.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c&quot;No one will believe me anyway - I won&#039;t talk.&quot;\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cForcing things\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c&quot;They tried to shut me down in every possible way, but they wouldn&#039;t listen to my concerns.&quot;\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cGoing to the specialist was humiliating \u2013 he criticized me all the time.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c&quot;I felt like the specialist wasn&#039;t interested at all, I&#039;m a bum here, a youngster. Or maybe I&#039;m stuck in childhood, grow up..&quot;\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThe specialist got in the car, turned the music up loud and didn\u2019t listen to me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI was shouted at\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWith every assessment, I closed myself in more. I didn&#039;t share what was going on, I was afraid of the assessments.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIf they say bad things, they don\u2019t want to accept help.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI feel bad when people judge actions without knowing what&#039;s going on behind the scenes. It&#039;s incredibly annoying.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c&quot;I only remember the bad criticism: &#039;You&#039;ll never amount to anything, you&#039;ll never finish anywhere, give up now, why are you even here?&#039;&quot;\u201e<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full ext-import\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"940\" height=\"625\" src=\"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ei-toota-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-795\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ei-toota-1.png 940w, https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ei-toota-1-300x199.png 300w, https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ei-toota-1-768x511.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/noortehaal\/\" class=\"ss-voice-back\">\u2190 Back to Youth Voice<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NOORTE H\u00c4\u00c4L &#8220;Vanemad olid kogu aeg t\u00f6\u00f6l, mist\u00f5ttu olin palju aega \u00fcksinda.&#8221; &#8220;Pere ninnun\u00e4nnutas mind liialt. Oleksin tahtnud energilist l\u00e4henemist, mitte ka morbiidset olekut: energia peegeldab energiat\u201d. \u00a0 Laused nagu: \u201cOlen energiavampiir\u201d; \u201cK\u00e4itu normaalselt\u201d; \u201cR\u00e4\u00e4gin liiga palju\u201d &#8220;Keegi ei kuula, me pole v\u00f5rdsed, t\u00e4iskasvanud ei kuula meid.&#8221; &#8220;Mitte keegi ei v\u00f5tnud minu muret t\u00f5siselt.&#8221; &#8220;R\u00e4\u00e4kisin&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/mis-ei-toetanud\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Read More \u00bb<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">What didn&#039;t support?<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-757","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/757","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=757"}],"version-history":[{"count":17,"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/757\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4360,"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/757\/revisions\/4360"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=757"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}