{"id":766,"date":"2024-04-17T06:39:05","date_gmt":"2024-04-17T06:39:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/?page_id=766"},"modified":"2026-09-05T17:30:21","modified_gmt":"2026-09-05T17:30:21","slug":"soovitused-taiskasvanutele","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/soovitused-taiskasvanutele\/","title":{"rendered":"Recommendations for adults"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>\n.wp-block-group.has-background-background-color.has-background{background:#faf6ef!important}\n.ss-voice-eyebrow{text-transform:uppercase;letter-spacing:.08em;font-size:13px;font-weight:700;color:#F5A623;margin:0 0 8px}\n.wp-block-group.has-background-background-color.has-background .wp-block-column:first-child>p{background:#fff;border-left:4px solid #F5A623;border-radius:0 12px 12px 0;padding:16px 20px;margin:0 0 14px;box-shadow:0 2px 8px rgba(0,0,0,0.06);font-size:16px;line-height:1.6;color:#3d3a30}\n.wp-block-group.has-background-background-color.has-background .wp-block-column:first-child>p:empty{display:none;padding:0;margin:0;border:0;box-shadow:none}\n.wp-block-group.has-background-background-color.has-background .wp-block-column:last-child img{border-radius:16px;box-shadow:0 4px 16px rgba(0,0,0,0.1)}\n.ss-voice-back{display:inline-block;background:#F5A623;color:#fff!important;font-size:14px;font-weight:700;padding:10px 22px;border-radius:8px;text-decoration:none}\n@media (max-width:781px){.wp-block-group.has-background-background-color.has-background .wp-block-columns{flex-direction:column}}\n<\/style>\n<p class=\"ss-voice-eyebrow\" style=\"text-align:center;margin-bottom:32px\">YOUTH VOICE<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull has-background-background-color has-background\" style=\"margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-right:var(--wp--preset--spacing--30);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-left:var(--wp--preset--spacing--30)\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-ceb3b540 wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns alignwide are-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-f50a6616 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:60%\">\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"margin-top:16px\">Try to establish a relationship (&quot;connection&quot;) with the child. It is very important that there is a connection and that I know that I can trust you and turn to you with my concerns. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"margin-top:16px\">Go deep, think about my affairs, take time for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Listen to me and be interested in me \u2013 believe what I say. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Please consider my thoughts and feelings as well. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don&#039;t threaten me, offer options and solutions, and talk things through with me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don&#039;t make decisions over my head, listen to what I have to say, involve me more in the decision-making process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If I act incomprehensibly, ask \u201cWhat happened?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Keep your promises and don&#039;t make empty promises. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don&#039;t just focus on what&#039;s bad. Point out what I&#039;m doing well. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Be empathetic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Try to see the reasons for my behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Put yourself in my place. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Also give me information about what&#039;s happening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Be consistent and consistent. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Believe in me that I can really do things differently. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Listen more, which is what I also want and need. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If I&#039;m angry, give me some time to calm down. Then we&#039;ll talk when I&#039;m calmer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Young people would definitely benefit from expert counseling and reasonable adults who do not punish, but try to help and have a positive influence, who delve into a person&#039;s problems rather than creating more of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The system needs to have people who take the time to listen and are focused on solutions, who don&#039;t shuttle the child from one place to another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You may not understand me, but try not to judge me!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you can&#039;t do anything else, just listen to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Adults don&#039;t understand that the world has changed and everything that goes with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don&#039;t compare my every situation to your own or others&#039; experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If we talk openly about our emotions, you should do the same. Don&#039;t just show yourself as strong. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Respect and understanding are a two-way street.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full ext-import\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"682\" height=\"864\" src=\"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/vajadused-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-799\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/vajadused-1.png 682w, https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/vajadused-1-237x300.png 237w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 682px) 100vw, 682px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/noortehaal\/\" class=\"ss-voice-back\">\u2190 Back to Youth Voice<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NOORTE H\u00c4\u00c4L Proovi luua lapsega suhe (\u201eklapp\u201c). On v\u00e4ga oluline, et tekiks klapp ja, et ma tean, et saab usaldada ning muredega sinu poole p\u00f6\u00f6rduda. S\u00fcvene, m\u00f5tle kaasa minu asjades, v\u00f5ta minu jaoks aega. Kuula mind ja tunne minu vastu huvi &#8211; usu, mida ma r\u00e4\u00e4gin. Arvesta ka minu m\u00f5tete ja tunnetega. \u00c4ra \u00e4hvarda mind,&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/soovitused-taiskasvanutele\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Read More &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Recommendations for adults<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-766","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/766","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=766"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/766\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4356,"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/766\/revisions\/4356"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sasuudad.ee\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=766"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}